Tuesday 25 March 2014

How to Be More Attractive to Men


There are a few easy things that most down-to-earth, attractive men look for in ladies.

Physical Traits:
1). Accentuate your femininity. Start by wearing red lipstick. Studies indicate that men are more drawn to a woman’s lips than any other feature on her face. When you're not in the mood for lipstick, be sure that you at least give your luscious lips some lip balm. Lip gloss works well, too.

Do exercises that make your boobs and butt firmer. Work on getting a smaller waist, which you can accentuate by making your butt bigger. If desired, you can also make your breasts look bigger.

2) Groom yourself well. Staying clean and fresh is a must. Bathe regularly and keep your finger- and toenails clean. Make sure your skin is soft, smooth, and free of blemishes. Many people focus on tanning or bleaching their skin. However, the colour of their partner's skin is not what attracts most guys, it is the touch; be sure to moisturize, exfoliate, and stay hydrated to keep your skin as soft and supple as possible.
Wash your face twice a day — not more, not less. Once in the morning and once before bed will help cut down on breakouts and help minimize large pores appearing. Be sure to moisturize after each time you wash your face.
Shave your legs and armpits regularly. Consider trimming/styling your pubic hair especially "down there"

Use perfume regularly. Nothing drives a guy wild like a good smelling person. Do not overdo it though; wear a light amount so the guy can smell it when he is close to you. You do not want to wear so much that everyone can smell you when you walk into the room.

3) Wear clothes that flatter your body. We are not all born with perfect bodies; that is the bad news. The good news is that we can change that if we work at it. Meanwhile, give yourself an emotional boost by wearing clothes that fit you:
If you are heavier in the thighs, don't wear jeans that are boot-cut or flared, as they exaggerate the heft in the legs.
If your stomach isn't yet chiselled, avoid tank tops and other tops that show much skin (halter tops). Instead, opt for tunics and peasant tops, throwing t-shirts in for occasions that are more casual.

4) Take excellent care of your hair. Studies have shown that lustrous hair — particularly if it is long — is a major factor in how attractive women are considered, probably because it is an excellent indicator of health.
If long hair doesn’t typically look good on you, choose a haircut that flatters your face shape instead. Many women find that alternating between short and long hair keeps things interesting!

5) Work out. You like your guys in shape, right? Six packs, slim or athletics. Guys like their partners fit as well. Get outside and get active. Not only is being fit well for your appearance, it is also good for your health. Just remember that being too skinny is a turnoff; guys may like trim, toned women, but they also like curves in the right places.
Exercise every day if you can, but at least 3 times a week is highly recommended. If you do nothing else, try to walk for 30 minutes every day but ensure you maintain that sexy and firm curves.

6) Dress sexy every once in a while. Instead of following the latest one-size-fits-some fashion trend, stay classic and timeless. Choose clothes that make you look slim, emphasize your bust, or flatter your curves as necessary. To appear subtly sexy, try a slightly sheer shirt.

NON PHYSICAL:
1) Smile and be friendly. Studies show that smiling women tend to be ranked as more attractive. Smiling is an instant way of looking approachable, which will make men much likelier to strike up a conversation with you. Remember, guys like partners that they can share a good conversation and laughter with.
When you flirt, be outgoing but not boisterous; the same charm you are attracted to in successful, confident, down-to-earth guys is what guys are attracted to in women. Subtle is better than in your face.
Learn how to flirt with body language. Smiling will get a long way if you let it, but like a great dish, it cannot stand alone. Put some other methods on your plate — using your lips, hips, and even eyebrows.

Don't get involved in affairs or with cheating men. Relationships are meant for two people. If you are the third person who gets involved, you are likely to get the short end of the stick when his girlfriend finds out. Even if he does break up with her, what's to stop him from cheating on you?
Give the guys who like you a chance. They may not be as attractive, funny, or perfect, but you do know that they like you. Pick the best one out of the group and go out on a date. If it doesn't work out, you gave it a shot. If it does, you made it happen. Imagine how great you'd feel if the perfect guy gave you a chance at love?
Don't keep repeating your mistakes. Everyone makes mistakes in love. We sometimes choose the wrong guy and he walks all over us and makes a mess of the relationship. That's okay — everyone does that. What most people don't do is learn from their mistakes. If you do not learn from failure, you will be attracting the wrong guy.

4). Be confident. Its a mutual thing its not only the women who like confident men but men too like confident women. Don't mistake arrogance with confidence. Arrogance is a big turn off for men.

5). Try to treat everyone in the same manner and be social. Talk to a handsome guy in the same way you would talk to a "Not so" handsome guy and vice versa. This is a very rare trait cool girls have.
Be social. You are not going to attract men by sitting in your living room watching late-night reruns of Bewitched. You have to put yourself out there, even if it is scary.
Start small. Go out with a group of your friends when you ordinarily would not. You might meet someone. Finding the right man is a numbers game. If you give yourself more and more chances, eventually it will happen!
Ask your friends for help. It might sound old-fashioned, but ask your friends to set you up with a guy on a date. Your friends are supposed to know you well. This makes them expert matchmakers, in theory at least!

Use the internet. Try online dating. Make an honest profile of yourself and begin messaging with guys you like. Go out with them on a public date and see if you hit it off. There is nothing wrong with trying and failing, remember? There is all the upside in the world with trying. You could hit a home run.

7). Be yourself. Once you have the look and style you are comfortable and confident with, just remember to be down-to-earth, honest, and have fun. After all, that is why you are in the game: to have fun and be happy. If you try to adopt a style or attitude to impress someone, they will eventually see through it because you will be constantly preserving a persona, and they will see you as a weak individual. Be happy and confident; there are plenty of great guys out there who will like you for your personality, and in turn you will both be much happier.

(Yep! Good luck babes. Remember I'm stil single o! Hehehehe!)

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