Wednesday 5 November 2014

Friends with Benefit aka Free Sex.

Friends with benefit simply means a male and female who are casual friends and enjoying sexual escapades with each other without any underlying romantic relationship existing between them.
It’s basically for adults who are well familiar with themselves and understand the nature of such relationship. Either of the friends could have a real relationship on the side which is not a problem to his/her friend (with benefit).
For some time now, I realize that friends with benefit is actually the best form of relationship until one is ready to plunge into a romantic relationship.
Discover the joy of FWB.

1. FREE SEX:
As the words imply, friends with benefit, you get to have lots of sex with your friend and move on.Just because you are not in a ‘relationship’ does not mean you can't have "it". And solo sex just doesn’t cut it. Casual sex is now more popular than it used. Really good friends will have sex together to compensate each other’s lack of affection from elsewhere and sexual needs. FWBs provide convenient access to sex while not in a relationship.

2. NO STRING ATTACHED: Friends with Benefits are great because you get the benefits of sex without the bullshit of a relationship. No fights, no boring dates, No lame excuses and jealousy. Above all, no heart breaks. Just great sex. And hopefully lots of it.
3. AVENUE TO LEARN AND EXPERIMENT:
He or she is a good friend already and you are completely free with him/her. Here you can actually learn some skills without feeling ashamed plus you can experiment that position you have always wanted but can't do it with your BF/GF. Trust me, your FWB will welcome all your moves without thinking of you as spoilt. With you FWB, you can be yourself, experiment, they already know you so you don’t have to be overly embarrassed, and there’s no judgement.

4. SAVES MONEY: He or she is just a friend therefore you a not under any psychological compulsion to buy a birthday or surprise gift, no spending on vacation or outing. When you dine out or buy anything together, no debates, no expectations or negotiations. It’s always separate cheques for FWB. Most importantly, you don't pay for that Brazilian hair, fuel his car or buy him any sort of gift. You are just friends and don't have any obligation towards each other except you just want to help.

5. THE BOUNDARY: You both know where you stand in each other’s life. There is no commitment, just friends with benefit. Avoid talking him or her out of their romantic relationship and don't interfere if they have issues except they seek an advice. You are not a shoulder to cry on and make it clear from the on start but if his/her lover upsets your FWB, why not; present your shoulder to cry on, offer those soothing words, it may lead to stroking and physical soothing, stroking leads to caressing, caressing leads to wandering hands; finally, wandering hands leads to intense breathing resulting to those magical moments you wanna repeat again. Yeah, oops!.
The good news is, friends with benefit might lead you both to a romantic relationship hence you are good friends already but never waste your time cursing your FWB or putting a bullet into your head if your FWB invites you to his or her wedding. Remember, you were just friends.
You like the above and want to try it, make a move, it could that guy or gal that friend-zoned you.

NB.
Sex in FWB is as risky as any form of sex, always use a condom because I know you won't stay faithful. Avoid pregnancy at all cost. It’s best you stay faithful to a partner though abstinence is best. Do people still abstain?
What do you think about FWB? Do you think we should all enjoy the fun it presents or you prefer to soak in a committed relationship? Drop your comments below.

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